This is one of the most difficult task that one encounters in life forgetting and forgiving. Sometimes the hurt is so deep or the wrong is overly top damaging to one self that is really hard to forget. To forgive somebody is to take away their guilt. The desire for punishment are also taken away. Forget someone who have been cruel to you is very easy to forgive them in general. The fact that things which cause us great pains, happiness, or emotions in general. That leave them us markings in our internal beings.When someone does me wrong, I usually have no problem forgiving them because I don't like carry grudges if only makes me feel bad and really does nothing to help the situation. If someone never ask for forgiveness I almost always tell them that I forgive them and let them know I only give them one chance and if they do it again they are no longer my friend or in my life. No some people like relatives and family friends you have to deal with them no matter what.
Dealing a friend who hurt me can be very difficult. If I want to continue to be his/her friend, I will have to forgive him/her. While it is possible to forgive him/her for hurting me, it will be almost impossible to forget the accident. When I was in my country, my cousin asked me to forgive her because she did is, she always write her name of all of my things for school that I can't put my name to know that it was my things because it was all her name written. I forgive her because she is my cousin and I don't want to have enemy with my relatives. In my opinion, everything can be forgiven, but not forgotten. For one thing I we must learn from our mistakes, so to forget an instance would leave yourself vulnerable to being hurt in the same way again. Obviously it is easy to say everything can be forgiven, but you never know how you will react when you find yourself in that very situaion, where you have to decide whether or not you can forgive someone. Even though I think everything can be forgiven, that doesn’t mean that the relationship between the forgiver and the forgive will go back to the way it was. It is not always possible to trust someone to the same extent as before and even if it is, trust is something which has to be earned back.
I conclude that you should forgive your love one's did to you if you dont want to lost them in your life.One thing to always remember any time you forgive someone don't forget what they did. If you forget what they did to you then you will never forgive yourself for letting them do it again and they will if you forget.
This is one of the most difficult task that one encounters in life forgetting and forgiving. Sometimes the hurt is so deep or the wrong is overly top damaging to one self that is really hard to forget. To forgive somebody is to take away their guilt. The desire for punishment are also taken away. Forget someone who have been cruel to you is very easy to forgive them in general. The fact that things which cause us great pains, happiness, or emotions in general. That leave them us markings in our internal beings.When someone does me wrong, I usually have no problem forgiving them because I don't like carry grudges if only makes me feel bad and really does nothing to help the situation. If someone never ask for forgiveness I almost always tell them that I forgive them and let them know I only give them one chance and if they do it again they are no longer my friend or in my life. No some people like relatives and family friends you have to deal with them no matter what.
Dealing a friend who hurt me can be very difficult. If I want to continue to be his/her friend, I will have to forgive him/her. While it is possible to forgive him/her for hurting me, it will be almost impossible to forget the accident. When I was in my country, my cousin asked me to forgive her because she did is, she always write her name of all of my things for school that I can't put my name to know that it was my things because it was all her name written. I forgive her because she is my cousin and I don't want to have enemy with my relatives. In my opinion, everything can be forgiven, but not forgotten. For one thing I we must learn from our mistakes, so to forget an instance would leave yourself vulnerable to being hurt in the same way again. Obviously it is easy to say everything can be forgiven, but you never know how you will react when you find yourself in that very situaion, where you have to decide whether or not you can forgive someone. Even though I think everything can be forgiven, that doesn’t mean that the relationship between the forgiver and the forgive will go back to the way it was. It is not always possible to trust someone to the same extent as before and even if it is, trust is something which has to be earned back.
I conclude that you should forgive your love one's did to you if you dont want to lost them in your life.One thing to always remember any time you forgive someone don't forget what they did. If you forget what they did to you then you will never forgive yourself for letting them do it again and they will if you forget.